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Yikes!  It doesn't take much to get the stress levels rising these days.  Just waking up to check the weather turns into newsfeed streams of protests, natural disasters, COVID and other hot topics that seem to drag one into a spiral that leads to despair.  

What's the remedy for surviving life in 2020?  I'd suggest there are several tools that would help us all cope, but if looking for a long term solution for stress, be it 2020, 1920 or 2220 ... the only solution this writer has come to find effective, long lasting, and sustainable is turning to the Creator and His Word.


I know.  That sounds so 1985 Sunday School"ish".  However, I've got over 30 years of doing life with Jesus to back up my hypothesis.  God truly is the foundation for everything in our lives.  To deny His ability to set my spiritual GPS in this crazy life to His ways is to go through life with deficit.


In ancient Israel, there was a King, King David, who was spectacular.  His reign ushered in a new era in the life of the Hebrew people.  He had, at his disposal, anything he needed.  Yet, he was so in tune with the Creator God that he had a rhythm of life that caused him to default to seeking God.  Enemies on the horizon?  Seek God.  His deference to seeking the divine brought him great success.  Was he crisis free?  No way.  However, when the crisis crept onto the front porch, he knew to whom he could ask what to do for help.


I am learning to reset my default to defer to the Divine.  I'm a 3 on the Enneagram.  I'm a Melancholy based on the four temperaments personality test.  I like order and structure and planning and security.  Good luck trying to keep all of that in check in 2020!  I know I can't find nor keep order, structure, plans or security on my own.  I certainly know I can't find nor keep order, structure, plans for security externally.  I can only depend on the sure foundation of faith in a Creator who's very nature IS order, structure, plans and security.  King David knew that.  


On any given day, there is so much chaos surrounding our lives that we will run ourselves silly and probably to the funny farm trying to chase order, structure, plans, and security.  We can work harder.  We can try to figure it all out on our own.  But oh, dear friend, I can assure you that all the work and all the strategy to try to figure out life on your own will result, %100 of the time, in failure.

So I've given a lot of words to define a delima and propose a solution.  Lovely.  But what does that look like in the life of a human?  Last week, this human was living a week full of hard.  If you go to my post you can read for yourself the issues we faced squarely in the face.  This side of a treacherous week, I can tell you we survived.  We didn't work harder.  We didn't try harder to figure everything out.  We surrendered.  I, personally, knew I was powerless to muster my own sanity.  I turned, very often without words but rather with deep despair in my inner self, to recite prayers to the One who could give me exactly what I needed.  And guess what, He did!  I am here.  I am alive.  I am not bound by the adrenal rush of stress.  I am living in a place of peace because I took my trouble to a loving Father and He carried me.


What's your stressors today?  I can assure you, if you have a relationship with God through Jesus Christ, He can carry them.  Place them ... or hurl them if you need to ... into his capable hands.  His return is peace.  And oh my word, don't we need peace in a time like we are living?!


Be blessed ... 


I hesitate telling my tale for it sounds pretentious.  But, pretentious as it may sound, I must tell my tale.  I went to Greece.  I not only went to Greece but I went to an island - an island that was not spoiled by tourists - an island by the name of Samos.  And, I don't mind spilling the secret ... God lives in Samos!

I've come to appreciate the ways God expresses Himself.  He uses people - for we are made in His image - to display character traits to show we who live below heaven who He is.  If you come from America, I think you tend to believe that God is somehow in His core - American.  If you live in South Korea, I think you tend to believe that God is somehow in His core - South Korean.  Yet, now that I've set bare feet on white pebbled beaches I am convinced that God does live in Greece.

Photo:  Christina Elledge

The reason for my trip to Samos was for relaxation:  to get away from "it" - all of "it", to find myself, to really see my husband and to not allow my brainwaves to set their default to all that must be done within certain time frames prescribed by me or others.  I was tired.  My Chris was tired.  We realized that this tiredness was not to be resolved by a good nights sleep - it required unplugging.  

Finding a last minute deal through a local travel company, I found an insanely good offer that gave us 7 nights stay in paradise, airfare, and airport to hotel transfers which were "All Inclusive".  I will say that having never booked such a trip, the "all inclusive" tag line made me nervous.  Were there hidden prices I was unaware?  Would there be a special fee at the airport that was not disclaimed?  Would our hotel be the scene of an Alfred Hitchcock movie?  Yikes.  This was scary and unfamiliar territory.  However I will save a dramatic pause and just come right out and tell you that my fears were not realized and I will ALWAYS book future trips through this travel company.  I could not stop smiling out of sheer gratitude at the outcome. 

After settling into our new home for the next 7 days, we decided to head down the mountain toward the nearest village, Kokkari.  Quaint.  Quite.  Quintessential Island experience.  From everywhere you looked the Aegean Sea was our backdrop.  We found a cafe with a sea view and plopped ourselves down on the lounge chairs that gave us a front row seat to the turquoise sea that splashed and danced in a frenzied welcome.

Photo:  Christina Elledge


After a few hours of staring into the distance, we decided to do a bit more exploring in our new village.  I've heard and seen for myself in other parts of Greece the tangible evidence of cats ... many cats roaming Greece.  However, this island had a plethora of felines.  Knowing how deeply my youngest loves animals, I made a pledge to snap a photo of a cat every time I saw a furry creature.  In fact, 60 of the 517 photos that I took while in Samos were of ... cats.

Photo:  Christina Elledge

I told you before but I'm not too proud to admit, I could NOT stop smiling.  Smiling out of total amazement that what I thought was a blind move of travel fate turned out to be one of the most beautiful experiences of my 48 years on planet earth!  This ... this is our village ... tucked into a harbor ... of the Aegean Sea.

Photo:  Christina Elledge


I was struck by the hospitality of the Greek people.  Eager to engage in conversation once you initiated it, they were warm, sincere and authentic.  Having made two prior trips to Greece, I thought my island experience would be similar to what we had already experienced.  However, to my sheer delight, it was totally different.  Perhaps the best way to explain the impressions could be compared to coming to America and visiting Chicago and Dallas.  Then, you go to a small fishing village off the coast of Washington.  What a contrast!  This was our experience in Samos.

We met some of the most lovely people.  Below is a sampling of the traditional Greek bakery items one of our new friends proudly sold at his very stylish Bakery.  A native of Kokkari, he spent much of his early education in Canada where his brother now lives.  He spends the tourist season months running his delightfully delicious shop full of Greek pastries and then heads to Canada for a reprieve from the island.  His English was perfect and his Baklava to die for ... which I had to sample ... twice.

Photo:  Christina Elledge


Not easily seen in this photo is the small black and white cat poking his head out of the back of the wooden basket behind this mans bike.  Make this number 2 of 60 cat photos.  I'm telling you ... there were a lot of cats!


Photo:  Christina Elledge

Old.  Proud.  That's the impression I came away with from our Greek island.  The blue from the blue and white colored Greek flag could be found everywhere:  doors, awnings, chairs, gates, window coverings.  It's the kind of pride that makes you humble at the long line of heritage that bears your name and not the kind that forces you to point your pointer finger in the air waving "We're number 1".  

Photo:  Christina Elledge

And there was always ... always the water.  The water that drew us into its' mysterious rhythm and color.  It taught us to sit.  It taught us to daydream.  It taught us to wonder.  It taught us to read until we fell asleep.  It taught us to listen for it's crash upon the shore.

Photo:  Christina Elledge


And whenever possible, I stuck the zoom lens on the end of my camera and snapped real life photos of real life people doing real life things.

Photo:  Christina Elledge


And because of my almost addictive love for doors, I noticed them.  Not as many as cats, but a great number of  my photos are of doors.  All shapes and sizes, doors captured my imagination.  What lie behind?  What had walked through and out and what stories could be told by those coming and going.

Photo:  Christina Elledge


Samos is the closest of the Greek islands to Turkey.  In fact, in the photo below, you can see a mountain behind the white colored village.  At this mountains' peak, Turkey lay a mere 25 KM.  Being such close neighbors, at the top of our mountainous island can be found many border control facilities that keep close tabs of their eastern neighbors.

Photo:  Christina Elledge


And there was always the mountains ... that kept paved roads winding themselves around its' rocky borders climbing and dipping to bring the traveler to new destinations.  Being so close to Kokkari, we climbed the 25 minute hike on our steep road to and from the village and to and from our hotel.

Photo:  Christina Elledge

And never ... oh never ... did the view along the way disappoint.  And because the view never disappointed ... it always made me smile more ... out of gratitude ... and thankfulness ... and giddy excitement over the fact that I had discovered ... that ... 

Photo:  Christina Elledge


God lives in Samos, Greece.

Photo:  Christina Elledge


Stay tuned for the continuing Samos adventures ...
and more cats.

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