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Every Saturday night for the last 6 weeks, my family and I have been a part of a student café, I Café.  Reaching out to students, we feed them, chat with them, give a life story about how a relationship with Jesus has transformed a life and “hang out” by playing games and engaging in conversation. 

This past Saturday, we made American Pancakes … and lots of them.  Students could choose the topping of their choice:  homemade syrup, strawberries and whipped cream or powdered sugar.  We made bacon.  We made eggs.  We called our little feast the American Breakfast.

After having to be shown the art of construction a pancake, student after student relayed their excitement, joy, pleasure, love, and pure delight over our little culinary creation.  One student made the comment:  “I’ve only seen these on American films.  I never thought I would actually get to eat these!”

As an American, I take for granted the impact my culture has on the rest of the world.  A vast majority of the planet gets its’ entertainment from my country.  Along with those movies, songs and TV. shows come American traditions that almost never get to be experienced … like eating pancakes.

This doesn’t make me arrogant.  It humbles me.  The things I take for granted are things some desire … strive for … dream of.  I live in affluence, intelligence and prosperity.  Yet, the one thing that caused a university student great joy was the consuming of American pancakes.

Dear Americans … don’t take your nationality or privilege for granted.  Don’t become arrogant or ungrateful.  We have been given much.  If you don’t think so … take a little trip to another part of the world and allow your eyes to be opened!

 


No matter how you pronounce it, Pinterest makes me feel like a failure.  There is not one single reason my heart feels this way.  There are several:

I want to be a good Mom.  I see pins from other Moms in cyberspace making Minnie Mouse shaped PB and J sandwiches, turning their bathtubs into sandboxes for a day, and creating children’s rooms that rival Michelangelo’s Cistern Chapel.  I make no-bake cookies.  They are easy.  They aren't healthy.

I want to romance my husband.  I see pins from other Wives in cyberspace making homemade love notes out of left-over wallpaper, taking romantic get-a-ways to exotic places financed by recycling aluminum cans, and creating love nests in their master bedrooms in an hour.  I put on makeup.  It's easy.  It makes me look nice.

I want to be a good cook.  I see pins from other Cooks in cyberspace making gluten, fat, lactose and egg-free blueberry pancakes, producing Mexican dishes out of some unknown not-wheat grain and soy cheese, and baking 14 layer cakes separated by flavors of homemade frosting that have only 12 calories.  I make meatloaf.  It's easy.  I always have leftovers.

I’m choosing to live above the standard that Pinterest and its little groupies try to pin on me!  I am unique!  I’m easy!  I think I’ll start my own Internet Group and call it:  Normal Life.  There will be no pins.  There will only be recipes for no-bake cookies, make-up tips, and 50 ways to use leftover meatloaf.  Don’t judge me.  I’m just too simple for a complicated Pinterest life!





Becoming an "older woman" is still weird for me.  I forget that when I chat cheerfully with students, in their 20's, they are not relating to me as their peer.   They are looking at me as an aunt, a mother, someone  ... older.  Ouch.

However, with age comes great freedom.  When I was in my 20's, I found it often hard to feel comfortable in my own skin.  I was still trying to figure out who I was and what my place in the world looked like.  I was seeking ... someone older ... to come alongside me and help guide me along life's highway.  I needed, I wanted, a mentor.

As God in His plan would have it, I am now that person ... that older someone who has been given a fine opportunity to come alongside younger women ... to help them along life's highway.  I'm a mentor.

What I love is that mentoring looks different everyday and with every girl.  I formally "mentor" two young women.  Then, I "informally" mentor several.  All come from different backgrounds, different economic status', different religious viewpoints.  My job is not to convince them that I have all the answers ... I don't (despite me wanting my children to think I do!).  My job is to help guide, to share life, to infuse my bits of experience from another standpoint, and to be a good mirror of what a loving Father God desires for these young women to know, to learn ... to be.  Some know this God of mine.  Some do not.  I've been given a wonderful purpose:  to increase their knowledge on a head and heart level of who they are and how much they are loved by their Creator.

This week, I hosted a cookie making class.  As we beat eggs, measured sugar, and burned the last batch ... I was able to share my love, my heart, my baking ability (or lack thereof since we burnt the last batch).  I was also able to share with them how the beauty of baking fits into the beauty of life.  Each ingredient we added to our dough, by itself, is just an individual component.  Yet, when added together, when beaten, chopped, and blended together with the other bits, mesh together to make a yummy result:  a cookie.
Let the beating begin!

Peanut butter Cookies in the oven

Chopping chocolate for chocolate chips

More chopping for more chocolate chips

A good friend always cleans up the dishes!


Without sounding all Forrest Gump ... life is like a cookie.  Life has ingredients that when added to the whole of our experience makes beautiful results.  When I look at the times in my life when there was beating or chopping (unpleasant things or circumstances) I tend to want to forget or dismiss those elements.  Yet, when lived side by side with the good times (the sugar, the vanilla) ... it all blends together into an experience that works ... if I let it ... together for my good.  The bitter, the sweet, the needed, the important ... they all work together to make a life that is planned for my good ... and to be shared.

We shared our cookies over tea and great conversation.  The baking soda no longer was bitter ... the sugar was not overwhelming.  All parts blended into one delicious cookie.  And when eaten together with a friend ... beautiful.





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